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#26 06-21-09 3:28 pm

elaine
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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

Bob, do you even read anything?  Perhaps a dictionary or encylopedia might be a place to begin.  Or, some history books?  Or Literature? <BR>I could suggest many that would both enlarge your vocabulary and depth of knowledge of which you seem peculiarly amiss.

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#27 06-21-09 7:59 pm

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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

You&#39;re welcome anytime to share whatever is on your mind, civil or otherwise. You might start by answering a simple question posed to you here and on other of my posts.

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#28 06-21-09 8:14 pm

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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

Bob, since you seem to really love questions, here are some for you: <BR> <BR>What was the last book you read? <BR> <BR>That should be a rather simple question; that is if you know how to read.

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#29 06-21-09 8:16 pm

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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

Bob, <BR> <BR>How many books have you read in the past 12 months &#40;not including comic books&#41;? <BR> <BR>Name them and the author. <BR> <BR>Give a short snyopsis of he contents of each.

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#30 06-21-09 8:20 pm

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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

Mine first, since you have avoided it longer and Neal has already asked the questions of me in the last two of your posts. And that is not the current issue.

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#31 06-21-09 8:30 pm

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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

The issue is civility and how people stand up for each other, not your or my bibliography. There is a point and you are evading it and I believe you and John both know where the question and answer leads. PLEASE answer the question and I will remove the signature quote. Otherwise it stays.

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#32 06-21-09 8:39 pm

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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

It has a lot to do also about pressure put on others by groups of &#34;friends&#34; or &#34;peers&#34; rather than the logic or true seeking of truth. So, just answer the question, eh???

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#33 06-21-09 10:51 pm

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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

<img src="http://www.atomorrow.net/discus/messages/13/1450.jpg" alt="">


If electricity comes from electrons, does morality come from morons?

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#34 06-21-09 11:23 pm

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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

I agree John. Glad you stopped.

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#35 06-21-09 11:24 pm

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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

Standing for fairness isn&#39;t whining. You been fair, John???

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#36 06-22-09 12:18 am

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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

Elaine, as you and John are trying to protect you and you are evading the questions asked of you, notice what I found as I wandered your more frequented territory: <BR> <BR><blockquote><hr size=0><!-quote-!><font size=1><b>quote:</b></font><p>Elaine, <BR> <BR>I give you an A&#43;&#43; in having the capability to find fault with anything that moves under the sun. Absolute expert. Astounding. I&#39;ll offer to be your next target . . . enjoy . . . <BR> <BR>Jody ;&#41; <BR> <BR><!-/quote-!><hr size=0></blockquote><a href="http://www.spectrummagazine.org/blog/2009/06/12/why_are_you_closed_saturday" target=_top>http://www.spectrummagazine.org/blog/2009/06/12/wh y_are_you_closed_saturday</a>

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#37 06-22-09 8:55 am

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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

Elaine <BR> <BR>I believe this was the last book Bob read: <BR> <BR> <BR><blockquote><img src="http://www.atomorrow.net/discus/messages/13/1453.jpg" alt=""></blockquote>

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#38 06-22-09 6:05 pm

elaine
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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

Or did he merely look at the pictures?

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#39 06-22-09 7:49 pm

bob_2
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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

Ditto on the A&#43;&#43;!!!!<img src="http://www.atomorrow.net/discus/clipart/uhoh.gif" border=0>

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#40 06-22-09 8:05 pm

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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

hey, gang....isn&#39;t this sposed to be a friendly tug of war...between ideas....not personalities?...not rugby?  not a pig pile!! <BR><img src="http://www.atomorrow.net/discus/messages/13/1456.gif" alt=""> <BR> <BR>maybe we could get back to that if .... <BR> <BR> <BR> <BR> <BR> <BR> <BR> <BR> <BR> <BR> <BR> <BR> <BR>naw, I wont ask him again.


If electricity comes from electrons, does morality come from morons?

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#41 06-22-09 8:58 pm

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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

Do you mean you want to get back to agreeing with Elaine and Neal and that comfy feeling of atheist/agnostic doubt and skepticisim. Tell you what, John, I&#39;m going to take that question down right now. But if I see the unfairness that previously existed on the board, it goes back up. That means standing up when it&#39;s unpopular to do so, not just because you&#39;re buds but because it&#39;s the right thing to do.

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#42 06-22-09 10:33 pm

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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

so we&#39;ll stop cyber stoning each other like they did in the Old Test? <BR><img src="http://www.atomorrow.net/discus/messages/13/1460.jpg" alt=""> <BR> <BR>good... <BR> <BR>now we can concentrate on the people who need our help <BR><img src="http://www.atomorrow.net/discus/messages/13/1461.jpg" alt="">


If electricity comes from electrons, does morality come from morons?

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#43 06-23-09 2:48 am

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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

Bob Sands, <BR>Grow up!  What on earth does it matter to you whether Elaine or anyone else has read the Bible through, cover to cover.  Anybody can do that who has passed junior high.  To understand what one is reading is quite another thing.

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#44 06-23-09 8:17 am

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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

Where were you Sirje when I was being mocked with the same question. The point, to draw you a picture, is about civiilty and peer pressure. It&#39;s not all as simple as the last post, Sirje. <img src="http://www.atomorrow.net/discus/clipart/blush.gif" border=0>

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#45 06-23-09 9:20 am

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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

Bob, <BR>You are lecturing people on civility?

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#46 06-23-09 10:54 pm

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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

Yep! And plan to continue to as people violate it with insults to those seeking truth, to those that pressure others to accept man&#39;s thinking rather than God&#39;s. If you don&#39;t like it, I guess you&#39;ll have to read around it.

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#47 06-23-09 11:39 pm

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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

There are limits to civility:  <BR> <BR>1. Just remember rule number one from the Book of Swayze: <BR>&#34;Be nice, until it&#39;s time not to be nice.&#34; <BR> <BR>2. Confucius says #1 rule for civil discourse: <BR>&#34;Never get in farting contest with skunk&#34;.

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#48 06-24-09 9:40 pm

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Re: Bullying and Its Underlying Mechanisms

Patrick Swayze in Roadhouse came to town where civility was unknown, where the town thug, Brad Wesley was uncivilized. Patrick&#39;s character was always up against him. As he took over a drinking establishment that was known for it&#39;s rough crowd, Patrick meets with his crew and fires some of them on the spot who had been outright cheating their employer, Patrick&#39;s boss. But one rule as he cleaned up this establishment, take the fight outside whenever possible so as not to break up the furniture and make people feel uncomfortable and the he said &#34;be nice&#34;. He got puzzled looks from the crew until he explained, there were going to be people that would not let you be nice. &#34;When will that be.&#34; Patrick said, &#34;I&#39;ll let you know.&#34; As the movie moves on, you begin to see the types that won&#39;t ever be civil but have their own agenda.  <BR> <BR>Patrick tries to be nice even to the town thug but he would have nothing but total control, that is when Patrick has to show when it&#39;s OK &#34;not to be nice.&#34; <BR> <BR>&#40;Message edited by Bob_2 on June 24, 2009&#41;

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